When running a --console server, like when using the service manager, the server process is often times killed before it fully shuts down. This caused the .pid.txt file to not get deleted which can confuse CommandBox on the true status of the server.

The Java Process builder does not offer a way to cleanly shutdown a server that is guarunteed not to be forceful, so we need to stop using process.destroy(), in favor of

• calling our stop() routine (which is aync)

• Calling process.waitFor() with a timeout of 15 seconds

• THEN finally calling destroy() as a last attempt

This will give the server JVM a chance to fully shutdown, ensuring the pid file gets removed as well.